What causes drama in your life?
Is it a specific person? Is it you?
People that thrive on drama are people that are used to getting attention or people that have never gotten any attention. Yes those are two very different groups of people but that is why dram runs rampant, because you have it bouncing off of and back and forth between two very different groups of people, attention getters and attention seekers.
There is a trick to avoiding drama and there is a trick to stopping drama. TURN AWAY from it!
Don’t allow your pot to be stirred!
Tell the person you don’t do drama and turn your back to them until the drama passes.
Simply ignore it!
Drama has been a big part of my life. Not really because I like to cause drama, I don’t. It happens more because the people in my life like drama and I let it happen. I DO like to talk, I do like to gossip and I do like to meddle, (all serious character flaws) but I don’t like hurting people and I don’t like being hurt.
How does all of this relate to my journey?
I have noticed that no matter how old you are, and how much crap you have gone through in your life, there is always going to be someone that wants to bring the drama in your life and guess what? It is a major food trigger for me. So the reason it is the subject of my post this morning is that I want to make clear my intentions and what I hope will be your intentions toward drama in the future…EXPELL IT! Kick it out, fire it, push it back, send it behind the house, bury it in the yard and spit on its grave.
Gossip and using your mouth as a weapon is the mildest form of violence. It is dangerous because loose talk can destroy lives and it can cause resentment and anger. It is bullying no matter how you look at it and you all know my stance on bullying.
Drama gets in the way of our health and I am not gonna let it keep me down. So if you have something to say to or about me, say it, I will return the favor, as long as you say it too me.
Let’s try to make the world a little better and just be nice, even to those we can’t stand, even to those we disagree with and let’s try to talk through something instead of just about something!
I love you all and hope you have a great day…and no this is not an angry post and nothing happened, I just wanted to discuss it…in other words…”Just Sayin”!
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