Sometimes after you have had a long rough day, and your feelings have been hurt and your confidence is freyed and your friends seem to disagree with you for feeling the way you do, the best thing to do is....ABSOLUTELY NOTHING!!!
I wont comment on what happened because there is a chance that I took it the wrong way. The person that hurt me probably didnt mean too and was more than likely doing what she did to protect her own interests and I cant blame her for that.
It takes some sleep, some focus on something else and a clear mind, to forgive and move on. Especially when the only person hurting was me. I would never confront this person anyway and no matter what anyone thinks, for me that is the best course of action.
How do you re-adjust when you have been disappointed by someone you care about? Do you over analize things like I do? Do you get mad and let it spill all over the place like other people might do? Do you act like it doesnt bother you while secretly plotting your revenge? Really friends, does any of that make the problem go away? If you cant rationalize the situation, and if you cant confront the individual(s), then just got to bed, and wake up refreshed. Last night I focused on business till around 3am, went to bed for a few hours then got up and worked out and the issue feels alot better and I can almost understand why my friend did what she did.
MY point here folks is, no matter how old we are and how mature we think we are and how confident we are in ourselves,we are all still learning and this journey ends when we die! (so fix up your vehicle and keep it fueled so you can make it to the finish line)
Those of you that know the story, only know my side of it, so please dont judge this woman for what happened. It was probably very innocent.
Thursday, August 4, 2011
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