There is ALWAYS a better way to deal with the bad things that happen to you then engaging in destructive behavior. Now I guess destruction could be defined as any action which depletes or disrupts an object through demolition... That can be taken many ways. I choose to publicize my feelings rather than get revenge or break things, but some people may see me as being destructive toward relationships. I guess what I am trying to say is. Eating poorly turning to drugs or disappearing for days or weeks at a time is in no way going to make the situation improve; it will only further hurt your already strained existence.
Today when you are driving to or from work and that jerk pulls out in front of you and you want to flip him off, or the older woman decided to argue with you because you are not in touch with her generation and you want to dismiss her or when your server gets your order wrong and you want to scream, imagine I am there with you smiling and calmly telling you that this will in no way affect your many tomorrows and you should let it go. We cannot control the actions of other people; we are not in control of the car they drive, their mentality or their pens and pencils. All we can do is coach them by a smiling example of what mankind should do when faced with adversity; Smile and Love!
Have a great weekend, I know I will!!!!!
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